Where do I begin...
For the past week I was staying in Pader District in the central north
of Uganda. The area was the site of 20 years of attacks by the Lord's
Resistance Army (look it up on Wikipedia for more details on the
LRA). Men and boys were often abducted by rebels and/or killed,
leaving women widowed and the sole providers in a bleak landscape. To
make matters worse, many women were raped and intentionally infected
with HIV/AIDS by rebels as a tool of terror leaving hundreds of
orphans, many of whom were also infected due to maternal transmission.
In an attempt to avoid the violence and find some protection, the
majority of people took refuge in extremely basic internally displaced
people's (IDP) camps. The IDP camps, however, were also occasionally
attacked.
Fortunately, a level of peace has been restored and people are slowly
leaving the camps and trying to resettle in their former villages -
provided they actually know where their ancestral homes are (some
children who were born in camps and subsequently lost all their family
members are unaware of their traditional community).
While in Pader I participated in the Pader Peace Forum and met with
numerous women's groups as part of my task of completing community
needs assessments. There was very little these communities didn't
need. In fact, there is so little in these areas and people are so
used to it that no one even mentioned the fact that there was no
running water, no electricity, and barely any accessible supplies
(i.e. food, medicines, building materials, etc.). What they cared most
about, they said, was growing food, making enough money to send their
children to school (note: school is "free" but you MUST pay for
supplies, including mandatory uniforms), or putting together pennies
to buy medicines for basic illnesses. It's hard for most people in the
west to imagine that level of poverty.
What stuck me most through all this though was the resilience in these
communities, particularly of the women. My words will never convey the
emotion I felt while speaking with them. It's actually even hard for
me even to physically write about without feeling my eyes well up.
I'll try though.
On top of the affects of war, in one community they had had two
children die in the past 24 hours from a totally treatable strain of
malaria. These women, after being through nothing less than hell on
earth, somehow found the strength to dance, to sing, to smile and to
welcome. They use their music and arts as therapy, as a tool for
educating, as a release. The sounds are so powerful. The energy is
infectious. The wail of their voices rocks your core. The drum beats
connect to your heart's rhythm. Their smiles are true, pushing past
the scars as they try and forget the past in order to move forward.
They see a bright future. There seems to be little anger, even as they
welcome former child soldiers back into their communities - some of
whom were forced to rape or kill the brothers, fathers, mothers,
sisters, sons and daughters of the people welcoming them back. Their
only concern is for making a brighter future for all. They want to
succeed and create a life for their children, a life that they had
stolen from them.
I am really not sure what more I can say right now, other than this
experience has changed me. It's changed me for the better. I don't
think I can look at the world the same way I did before. These women
are known as teachers in their communities, but their lessons are for
us all.
In honour of these women and their strength, let's agree to do
everything in our power to forgive those who have hurt us, and in
doing so work to end violence and hate. Let's commit to abstaining
from violence and once and for all truly work together for peace.
I am in, are you?